12-years married

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Yesterday, was our 12th wedding anniversary. It’s hard to believe how fast it’s gone. I posted this little tribute on Facebook that I would like to share here:

In summer 2005, we were homeless, jobless, and in the midst of a transatlantic move. All our possessions, consisting of a few favorite CDs, books, photos, and some old clothes, were contained in a couple of backpacks and a duffel bag. The US had what we thought was THE WORST PRESIDENT EVER and the world seemed to be going down the tubes with terrorist attacks in London and Egypt and hurricane Katrina all happening in quick succession. Yet we decided to give it a try and build a life together. Founded not on material things and financial security, but on love, trust, joy of little things and a whole lot of hope. Fast-forward 12 years, the world continues to be batshit crazy, we have THE WORST-ER PRESIDENT EVER, but all I feel is gratitude. For our family. For not being jobless and homeless anymore. But mostly, for all that love and trust and joy that we have shared together. I hope they will continue to sustain us for years to come.

I often think about how insane this world is and how we consciously decided to bring two new lives right into this insanity.

It makes me anxious at times, for sure.

But it also brings hope.

Our children’s love, joy, spontaneity, ingenuity, and openness give me faith in humanity.

And again, it brought back the words of David Steindl-Rast (there is so much wisdom in this conversation, be sure to check it out!) that hit the nail on the head in expressing my feelings, which are a mixture of trust, anxiety, and hope:

[…] when we look at things like global warming, or the destruction of the environment, or this uncontrollable violence that’s breaking out here and there […] I think that justifies us to say we are at the brink of self-annihilation.

However, we must acknowledge our anxiety about it. […]

But we must not fear. […]

Anxiety is not optional in life. It’s part of life. We come into life through anxiety. And we look at it, and remember it, and say to ourselves: we made it. We got through it. We made it!

In fact, the worst anxieties and the worst tight spots in our life, often, years later, when you look back at them, reveal themselves as the beginning of something completely new, a completely new life.

And that can teach us, and that can give us courage.

[…] Now that we think about it, in looking forward and saying, yes, this is a tight spot. It’s about as tight spot as the world has ever been in, or at least humankind.
But, if we go with it — and that will be grateful living — […] it will be a new birth.

And that is trust in life.

And this “going with it” means you look what is the opportunity […] and avail yourself of the opportunity.

And that is very difficult because anxiety has a way of paralyzing us. […]

But what really paralyzes us is fear.

It’s not the anxiety, it’s the fear, because it resists.

[…] Give up this resistance

[…] Everything hinges on this trust in life.


And with this trust, with this faith, we can go into that anxiety and say, it’s terrible, it feels awful.

But it may — I trust that it is just another birth into a greater fullness.


“Start with what you have, not with what you want”

This morning, Humans of New York shared a picture of this spectacular lady in Moscow. Dressed in all white, with a snazzy hat and bright red lipstick.

This is what she said:

I’m ninety but I feel like I’m fifty.

I don’t take any medicine.

I never complain.

I’m just happy to be alive.

I tell people: “Start with what you have, not with what you want.”

Every day I dance for two hours.

And I’m still really interesting too.

I love politics and literature.

I love the sciences.

And I’ve got a boyfriend named Alexander.

We exchange books.

I don’t even know how old he is.

I want to be that lady when I am ninety. And it’s a process, but I am learning to notice and appreciate what I have.


There is this conversation that Krista Tippett (who is just the BEST) had with David Steindl-Rast last year. I like to go back to it every now and again to be reminded that even though we cannot be grateful for everything that happens to us, we can be grateful for something every second.

Steindl-Rast so wisely describes gratitude as a vessel, quietly filling up until it overflows.

He says:

It’s like the bowl of a fountain when it fills up, and it’s very quiet, and still.

And then, when it overflows, it starts to make noise, and it sparkles, and it ripples down.

And that is really when the joy comes to itself, so to say, when it is articulate.

And for us, for many people in our culture, the heart fills up with joy, with gratefulness, and just at the moment when it wants to overflow and really the joy comes to itself, at that moment…

advertisement comes in and says “no, no, there’s a better model, and there’s a newer model, and your neighbor has a bigger one.”

And so, instead of overflowing, we make the bowl bigger, and bigger, and bigger.

And it never overflows.

It never gives us this joy. Its’ affluent, this affluence side.

That means it always flows in, it doesn’t overflow.

It flows in, and in, and in, and in, and chokes us eventually.

And we don’t have to deprive ourselves of anything, but we can learn that the real joys come with quality, not with quantity.

Beautiful metaphor, isn’t it?

This ninety-year old in Moscow, she’s got it figured out.

My Enneagram Type: Observer/Investigator

I have read about the enneagram personality test before and it sounded intriguing. I have now finally completed a couple different online tests and it seems very clear that I am unequivocally a Type 5.

Here are some characteristics of a Type 5 personality:








Focused on intellectual understanding







Not big on “small talk”

Observing rather than participating


Preoccupied with their thoughts



Oh, it all makes so much sense to me!


At their best, Fives become visionaries, broadly comprehending the world while penetrating it profoundly. Open-minded, take things in whole, in their true context. Make pioneering discoveries and find entirely new ways of doing and perceiving things.

At their worst, Fives become reclusive and isolated from reality, eccentric and nihilistic. Highly unstable and fearful of aggressions: they reject and repulse others and all social attachments. Seeking oblivion, they may commit suicide or have a psychotic break with reality. (…) Deranged, explosively self-destructive, with schizophrenic overtones. (https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/type-5)


At least I am in good company: Siddhartha Gautama Buddha, Albert Einstein, Bill Gates,  Jane Goodall, Eckhart Tolle, Kurt Cobain, Thom York (Radiohead) 🙂


Need to keep reminding my Dear Husband that this thing with me, continuously wanting to talk about shit and analyzing and dissecting stuff is not really my fault. Apparently, this is air to me. I was made this way.

Now excuse me for a moment, I need to go investigate some more…

Maya Angelou’s advice for Dave Chappelle

Be angry.

If you are not angry, you are either a stone or you are too sick to be angry.

Now mind you, you must not be bitter.

Bitterness is like cancer.

It eats upon the host.

It doesn’t do anything to the object of its displeasure.

So, use that anger, yes!

You write it.

You paint it.

You dance it.

You march it.

You vote it.

You talk it.

NEVER stop talking it.

Iconoclast: Dave Chappelle and Maya Angelou


I miss Maya Angelou. I want such a beautiful sage-mentor-elder-mother figure in real life.

Also, thank God for YouTube!


Chief Tecumseh’s words of wisdom

Tecumseh02I was flipping through my notebook, in which I keep various inspiring quotes, and was reminded of this text. It is attributed to Chief Tecumseh, but since I found it on the Internet and didn’t do any research on its authenticity, I feel like a disclaimer is needed here: I am not really sure those are his words.

But they ring true all the same.


So live your life that the fear of death can never enter your heart.

Trouble no one about their religion.

Respect others in their view, and demand that they respect yours.

Love your life, perfect your life, beautify all things in your life.

Seek to make your life long and its purpose in the service of your people.

Prepare a noble death song for the day when you go over the great divide.

Always give a word or a sign of salute when meeting or passing a friend, even a stranger, when in a lonely place.

Show respect to all people and grovel to none.

When you arise in the morning give thanks for the food and for the joy of living.

If you see no reason for giving thanks, the fault lies only in yourself.

Abuse no one and no thing, for abuse turns the wise ones to fools and robs the spirit of its vision.

When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way.

Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.

Not Quite The Beloved Community

hoodWe live in a townhouse neighborhood. It is quiet, clean, and really diverse, which we love. You will find a little bit of everything: Christian and Muslim, gay and straight, young and old, white and black, Asian and Latino, African and Eastern European.

I like that the neighbors know my kids and the kids feel safe there. I like sitting on my stoop and watching the little ones explore the woods in the middle of our expansive cul-de-sac, or playing hide and seek with other neighborhood children. We don’t have a dog, but many neighbors do and we all get our “dog fix” by playing with neighbors’ various pooches (of which there are many.)

Although our little townhouse needs some TLC (more like, a lot!) I like it all the same and our small garden with a few native plants attracts bees, butterflies, and an occasional hummingbird.

If it sounds like a perfect little community, let me just clarify that it is NOT. And I am thinking that a perfect community would be so easy to build and maintain if it weren’t for one thing: other people.

I love the idea of a close-knit community. I totally dig what Jesus was teaching to love your neighbor as yourself. I am all for that.

But living in close proximity to many other humans is HARD.

I may meditate and read inspirational texts all I want… yet, as soon as I step out of my house, my equanimity is severely tested. All my pet peeves surface and I just want to run for the hills.

There are those party people who were doing fireworks in front of our tiny townhouses and my daughter got burnt and stuff on our deck also had holes burnt through it.

There is the neighbor next door, ceaselessly dumping chemicals on her front lawn in hopes of once and for all conquering insect and weed populations (our yards are sloped so it all ends up being washed down onto our yard, which, to me, means a sad farewell to my organic tomatoes and basil…)

There are the clashing child rearing philosophies: those other parents, preventing their kids from playing with rocks and sticks in the woods in the name of safety and furnishing them with plastic guns instead.

There are the dog owners that will take their dogs for poop walks in others’ front yards instead of the wide open shared spaces that we have…

I am well aware that to some of my neighbors, I am THAT person: pretty much free-ranging our young kids, who keep dragging sticks, rocks, pine cones and other treasures to our yard. Cultivating a wild mix of glorified weeds where others would like to see neatly manicured boxwood plants (my milkweed and echinaceas are magnificent). Not keeping our lawn to the HOA precise specifications… (my husband does mow it, but there are occasional outbreaks of dandelions or clover. And I will not be persuaded to use herbicides, no siree!)

So, what do I do with this instinct to run away, buy a farmhouse somewhere far away and live peacefully ever after not disturbed by our fellow humans?

First, I do a reality check and realize that as much as I would like to pack up and leave, there is no way that this could work in terms of finances and jobs and kids’ access to various things that they need  (such as a decent school).

So, I go back to meditation and those inspirational texts…

It helps a little.


There is no time to hurry

Dali-Flickr-CC-e1309916926972“There is no time to hurry.” I heard this sentence somewhere recently and it reminded me of a situation.

One morning, I was getting my kids ready for preschool. It was a lot like most of our mornings. I was running around, playing the various checklists in my head on repeat, yelling at my kids, trying to get them fed, cleaned, dressed, fix their hair, brush their teeth, pack lunch, clean the kitchen, feed the cat, and get myself ready for work…

I got them in their car seats and buckled, when I realized that I had forgotten my glasses, so I ran back to the house to get them. When I came back, I realized that I had forgotten my coffee, so I ran back again to get that. Then, I realized, I forgot my kids’ folders… you get the picture. I did that maybe five times without taking the time to consciously take a breath.

When I finally sat behind the wheel and started the engine, my daughter said:

Mama, maybe next time we should get everything ready the night before…

This made me stop the crazy for a moment. Gosh, I thought, this whole morning, I did not take a second to as much as NOTICE my kids.

What am I teaching them by being in this constant frenzy of hurry?

Being a working mom, I don’t really have the luxury of taking my time with most of the things that need to get done so that we can all be fed and dressed in clean clothes, and live in a somewhat clean-ish house (the somewhat clean-ish is my aspiration, folks. It doesn’t always get to be that.)

It’s not easy to change these hurried patterns, but since I had this realization, I’m trying. To at least be THERE when I hug my kids good morning and goodbye. Or when I sit down to read them a story, I try to be present: be engaged and make funny voices that they like instead of just reciting the story while thinking about something else (I’ve certainly done that before).

I also notice that when I truly pause and become present when the kids are misbehaving, I am more likely to handle the situation in a way that doesn’t require immediate follow ups and they understand better what is expected of them.

It seems that when I stop frantically trying to get everything done at the same time, when I slow down and focus on what I am doing at the moment, I get better results. And that’s why this rings so true to me, folks: there is no time to hurry.


Also, I love this poem by Marie Howe:

We stop at the dry cleaners and the grocery store
and the gas station and the green market and
Hurry up honey, I say, hurry hurry,
as she runs along two or three steps behind me
her blue jacket unzipped and her socks rolled down.
Where do I want her to hurry to? To her grave?
To mine? Where one day she might stand all grown?
Today, when all the errands are finally done, I say to her,
Honey I’m sorry I keep saying Hurry—
you walk ahead of me. You be the mother.
And, Hurry up, she says, over her shoulder, looking
back at me, laughing. Hurry up now darling, she says,
hurry, hurry, taking the house keys from my hands.

This might be controversial – does feminism make us cool?

coolI went back home recently. To Poland.

It was time.

I felt like I needed a break from work and home stuff and I kind of wanted to go on my own, but, at the same time, I knew I would go crazy without seeing the kids for a week. (Also, financially, things have not been that great and 4 airplane tickets to Warsaw were not exactly in our budget.)

So… I came up with the brilliant idea of a mother-daughter trip. Yay, me!

I loved it.

I loved being with Maya. (If you have a baby or a toddler and you think going places is just the worst thing ever, hang in there! It gets better.) When we boarded our plane, Maya saw the screen in front of her seat and gave me this halfway hopeful, halfway mischievous look as if saying can I just watch TV the WHOLE time? I smiled and nodded, knock yourself out, love.

But she didn’t just watch TV. Well, she mostly did but, we also had some quality time.

I loved being with her, amazed as she was at everything new before her.

In Poland, we saw a bunch of my old friends and my family. And boy, did I miss it!

I came back with a feeling of being… full. Whole might be a better word. I filled in on human interaction and a sense of belonging. On not feeling odd for a change.

And I was so glad that my daughter was there to witness that.

One of my friends asked me if Poland seems changed to me. Without thinking much about it, I blurted out that WOMEN here are amazing. It was a strange thing to say, but also precisely how I felt.

I SO miss being in a community of women. Especially now, that I have kids.

In the 12 years I have lived in the US, I have not met one American-born woman that I became close friends with. Sure, I met many people who are nice. People in the US are generally nice. And fine. But, for some reason, I have never established a connection.

I often feel like it’s me, my fault. I am socially awkward and hopeless at making small talk. Half of the time I have no idea what people are talking about as many cultural and social references are incomprehensible to me. Of course, I didn’t grow up here and I don’t watch TV. That’s part of the problem.

The other part is that I hardly ever feel seen or heard. This might be my self-centeredness talking. But I typically don’t feel like that when talking to women from other cultures and I have heard of similar experiences from my non-American women friends, so it feels like something is up with that.

Recently, Maya was invited to a friend’s birthday party. The family is Ethiopian. It was very different from other birthday parties we go to. I loved being in their home. We came in and immediately felt welcome. The mom gently guided us in and invited us to eat and drink. It’s not that she catered to us constantly, she left us to entertain other guests. Of whom there were many. It was the general sense of being noticed and belonging to this community of people celebrating the darling little boy. Later, the mom asked if we had enough to eat, and, without waiting for my answer, she took my plate and saying you have got to try this, she put a scoop of an Ethiopian lentil dish on my plate. And this just melted my heart.

There was this interchanging group of women congregating in the kitchen and whenever I walked in, the conversation didn’t stop awkwardly. The conversation continued, but whoever passed through was acknowledged by a look and a smile or a question if anything is needed. This, to me, felt like home.

I love women congregating in kitchens. I love women being attentive and open and generous and loving. It reminds me of mom and my aunts and home and I miss it terribly. And it breaks my heart that I am not able to recreate this for my kids.

When I lived in Poland, there were many things that I didn’t like. The ruling patriarchy and the church were huge factors. I didn’t fit in the constrains of that culture. I just wanted to do my thing but I knew that unless I conform, find a boyfriend, wear a pretty dress to church on Sunday, and keep my opinions to myself, I will always be ostracized by the general culture. Most women, like my mom, just went with the flow. Mom was not a rebel. Neither were the other women I grew up around. They were not going to change the status quo.

But among themselves, they were real people. And I miss real relationships with real people with feelings who let you feel things, too.

And I am not writing this to pass judgement or bash anybody, but the US has been such a lonely place for me. It is so hard to put a finger on this problem that I have. Because people here seem FINE. Perfectly nice and FINE. Just sort of separated by some invisible walls that I cannot break through.

When I hang out with our American friends, I feel like I often have to pretend, curb my selfness a little. And it might be a projection, but I feel like everyone is pretending. I learned very quickly to not ask any questions that might be too personal, to direct. I learned not to share anything about myself that’s too personal, either. I learned that emotions need to be held on a very short leash. You cannot seem too enthusiastic or too sad. You need to be cool. Otherwise, you will be received with silence or raised eyebrows. I also learned to not expect that that person you chatted with for a while will remember you next Monday.

I have been thinking a lot about this. And my one theory is that these modern women, in the process of asserting themselves and fighting for their rights, threw the proverbial baby out with the bathwater.

I hope that I will not be misunderstood. I am and have always been for equal rights. For everyone. And I like that this culture is trying to get rid of open sexism and misogyny. It’s a long road, but still, it’s better here than in many other places. Women fought and continue to fight for their rights here and that is a good thing.

But I also feel that in that fight, many women are losing something that’s real and precious and at the same time very powerful. Paradoxically, in this feminist fight, we might be losing our femininity (and I don’t mean femininity as prettiness).

I feel like in trying to prove our equality with men, we started acting like men. We muffled our intuition, suppressed the emotions, and severed ties with our sisters. To me, femininity is warm, inclusive, communal, generous, nurturing, intuitive, and empathetic. And being able to use these qualities to raise children and build comminities is powerful.

Instead, I feel like we became distant, self-reliant, competitive, and suspicious of other women. We lost the sense of sisterhood. We became cool. And also separated from each other and hurting and wanting to scream our lungs out to be seen by and connect with other human beings. Maybe that’s just me.

I pray that one day, I will be able to reach out to someone here, in this place I now call home, and break through, and connect like I did with those women I visited in Poland.












The Alphabet of the Heart

doty dalai lamaI love me a good story. Fiction is fine, but stories written by life are so much more compelling if you ask me. I just finished “Into the Magic Shop: A Neurosurgeon’s Quest to Discover the Mysteries of the Brain and the Secrets of the Heart” by James R. Doty, MD. What a remarkable path he has followed – from a poor boy growing up with an alcoholic father and a chronically depressed mother to a Stanford professor of neurosurgery and the director of the Center for Compassion and Altruism Research. Doty knows his stuff as he has been a practicing neurosurgeon for decades, but, even though the book makes references to scientific research, it is a nice and easy read. But it is not trivial. The wisdom contained in this book rings true to me and that’s why I would like to share the essence of what Doty discovered on his remarkable journey.

The Alphabet of the Heart by James R. Doty, MD

C – Compassion is the recognition of suffering of another with desire to alleviate that suffering. Yet to be compassionate to another, you must be compassionate to yourself. Many people beat themselves up by being hypercritical, not allowing themselves to enjoy the same kindness that they would offer to others. And until one is truly kind to oneself, giving love and kindness to others is often impossible.

D – Dignity is something innate in every person. It deserves to be acknowledged and recognized. So often we make judgements about someone because how they look, or talk, or behave. And many times such negative and wrong. We have to look at another person and think, “They are just like me. They want what I want – to be happy. When we look at others and see ourselves, we want to connect and help.

E – Equanimity is to have an evenness of temperament even during difficult times. Equanimity is for the good and the bad times because even during good times there is a tendency to try to maintain or hold that feeling of elation. But trying to hold on to the good distracts us from being present in the moment just as trying to flee from the bad does. Grasping for that feeling of elation is not realistic, not possible, and only leads to disappointment. All such ups and downs are transient. Keeping an evenness of temperament allows for clarity of mind and intention.

F – Forgiveness is one of the greatest gifts one can give to another. It is also one of the greatest gifts we can give to ourselves. Many have used the analogy that holding anger or hostility against another you feel has wronged you is like drinking poison and hoping it kills the other person. It doesn’t work. It poisons you. It poisons your interactions with others. It poisons your outlook on the world. Ultimately, it makes you the prisoner in a jail where you hold the key yet won’t unlock the door. The reality is that each of us in our lives has wronged others. We are frail, fragile beings who at various times in our lives have not lived up to our ideal and have injured or hurt another.

G – Gratitude is the recognition of the blessing that your life is – even with all its pain and suffering. It takes little effort to see how many in the world are suffering and in pain. People whose circumstances allow for little hope of a better life. Too often, especially in western society, we look at each other and feel jealous or envious. Simply taking a few moments to feel gratitude has a huge effect on your mental attitude… You suddenly recognize how blessed you are.

H – Humility is an attribute that for many is hard to practice. We have pride about who we are or what we have accomplished. We want to show and tell others how important we are. How much better we are than someone else. The reality is that such feelings are actually a statement of our own insecurity. We are searching for acknowledgement of worth outside of ourselves. Yet doing so separates us from others. It’s like being put in solitary confinement, and it’s a lonely place to be. It is only when we recognize that, like us, every person has positive and negative attributes, and only when we look at one another as equals, that we can truly connect. It is that connection of common humanity that frees us to open our heart and care unconditionally. To look at another as an equal.

I – Integrity requires intention. It requires defining those valued that are most important to you. It means consistently practicing those values in regard to your interaction with others. Our values can easily disintegrate, and the disintegration can be at first imperceptible. If we compromise our integrity once, it becomes much easier to do it again. Few start out with such intent. Be vigilant and diligent.

J – Justice is a recognition that within each of us there lives a desire to see that right be done. It is easier when we have resources and privilege to have justice. Yet we need to guard justice for the week and the vulnerable. It is our responsibility to seek justice for the vulnerable, to care for the weak, to give to the poor. That is what defines our society and our humanity and gives meaning to one’s life.

K – Kindness is a concern for others and is often thought of as the active component of compassion. A desire to see others cared for with no desire for personal benefit or recognition. The extraordinary thing is that research is now finding that your act of kindness not only benefits those who receive your kindness but benefits you as well. The act of kindness ripples out and makes it more likely that your friends and those around you will be kinder. It is a social contagion that puts our society right. And ultimately kindness returns back to us, in the good feelings it generates and in how others treat us…with kindness. 

L – Love when given freely changes everyone and everything. It is love that contains all virtues. It is love that heals all wounds. Ultimately, it is not our technology or our maditine but love that heals. And it is love that holds our humanity.

Here is the link to the book, check it out!  http://intothemagicshop.com/home

Wings for Mom

10000 daysI liked Tool’s 10,000 Days album very much when it came out in 2006, but, for some reason, I didn’t listen to it much in the past several years. Last week’s concert reminded me of this record (they played Jambi and Vicarious), so, this past weekend, I played it several times and rediscovered the amazing Wings for Marie.

I was kind of glad that I had not listened to it over the years, because I really appreciated the apparent newness of this 2-part piece. Keenan wrote Wings for Marie for his mom, Judith Marie, who was a devout Christian and suffered a brain aneurysm that left her paralyzed for about 27 years (10,000 days). Keenan was still a kid when this happened, so it is really hard to comprehend the crushing weight of his grief and the different emotions he must have gone through over the years.

But listening to this song now, as a parent myself, and having lost my own mother, it really resonates with me on a whole new level.

My mother was also a practicing Christian. Hard-working and humble, always putting herself last. After losing her first child, she devoted herself to raising the three that came after without asking for much for herself. She accepted her arduous path without complaints. It is remarkable, and ironic, that she, who was considerately trying to get others to quit smoking, died from lung cancer after nearly a year-long, painful struggle. But she never lost her faith.

Those are two different stories of two different people but to me, the truth contained in Wings for Marie (Part 2) pulls on something inside that allows some really raw emotions to surface. And it really feels kind of healing.

Coincidentally, I recently started reading Joseph Campbell’s The Hero with a Thousand Faces. Having studied myths from all cultures around the world, Campbell concluded that a lot of them share the same key idea, which he describes as the hero’s journey. The journey consists of three acts: departure from home, initiation marked by some difficult challenges, and return home in full glory. Because the basic pattern is the same, regardless of where a myth comes from, it suggests some universal, innate need in all humans to manifest this pattern in our lives.

The first few lines of Part 2 set the stage beautifully, laying out the hero’s journey and asserting that the mother is the true hero that we are only aspiring to become, even pretending to be:

We listen to the tales and romanticize
how we follow the path of the hero
Listen to the tales as we all rationalize
our way into the arms of the savior
Feigning all the trials and the tribulations
None of us have actually been there
Not like you…

When I listen to this song, I see my mother in a completely different light: always duteous, loyal to her family and to her faith, carrying her cross obediently throughout her whole life, yet no longer a submissive, resigned person, but a hero, taking all challenges of her initiation in stride…

This is a powerful image.

Here’s my mother, the heroine coming home after her formidable journey, confidently and boldly claiming her hard-earned award in Heaven:

(…) hold your head up high
shake your fist at the gates saying
I have come home now
fetch me the Spirit, the Son and the Father
tell them their pillar of faith has ascended

It’s time now!
My time now!
Give me my
Give me my


Each time I listened to this part, I broke down at this forceful, gut-wrenching plea.

It is such an awesome song.

I love the frequent changes in tempo and melody, the intertwining of harmonies and dissonances, the mood shifts and the myriad of emotions – from sorrow and longing, to contempt for pretenders and hypocrites, to forgiveness, humility, understanding, and acceptance.

And there is this outpouring of gratitude and the purest love.

So, so beautiful…